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Understanding

Instrumental use

Within the INR Model framework, “instrumental use” refers to the use of insight as a means to guide behavior, influence outcomes, or steer people in a desired direction.

When understanding is used as a tool rather than an explanatory framework, the model loses its original function.

Deepening

The INR Model was developed to understand behavior, not to control it. Yet a risk arises as soon as that insight becomes available.

 

 

Who understands:

Which Inner Needs are under pressure

- Which Narrative is active

What protection is activated

 

 

... has influence.

 

 

Instrumental use arises when that insight is used to:

– Manipulate responses

– To subtly steer choices

To optimize behavior without the other person consciously choosing it

 

 

In that moment, the intention shifts from understanding to influencing.

Within INR, this is problematic because it undermines autonomy. The model is then used to make behavior predictable and controllable rather than understandable.

Instrumental use can be subtle. It doesn't have to be explicit manipulation. Strategically using knowledge about needs to activate behavior also falls under this when reciprocity is absent.

Relationship to INR

Instrumental use is precisely the risk that the INR Model ethical framework draws a line against.

 

 

Because INR focuses on meaning and protection, instrumental use almost always leads to:

– Strengthening Narrative

– Activation of protection

Power asymmetry

 

 

The model then loses its integrity.

INR remains consistent only when insight is used to create space, not to force outcomes.

Within INR, understanding is not a means of control, but a prerequisite for relational care.

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